avenjar asked:
Hi there. A friend of mine recently came out as trans, but they said that they don't plan on living as a guy until they go to college. Should I start referring to them with male pronouns and their guy name now, or just continue calling them their girl name and female pronouns until they leave? Thanks, and this is a great blog!
This isn’t something I can answer. Ask your friend what zie would prefer. If zie prefers you to wait or to only do it in private, then respect your friend’s wishes. It might be a rocky transition for the both of you, getting used to that, but in the end, it’s your friend’s choice.
