How to Make Love to a Trans Person
fuckyeahmenfolk: By Gabe Moses Forget the images you’ve learned to attach To words like cock and clit, Chest and breasts. Break those words open Like a paramedic cracking ribs To pump blood through a failing heart. Push your hands inside. Get them messy. Scratch new definitions on the bones. Get rid of the old words altogether. Make up new words. Call it a click or a ditto. Call it the sound he...
Having Sex with a Transman, A Lesson in 3 Parts
artoftransliness: This video is aimed more toward female partners (or potential partners) of transmen This two part video is geared toward male partners of transmen (part I and part II). These are very informative in terms of sexual education as well as anatomical descriptions of how things are “down there” for transmen (pre or post-T or surgery).
More Resources for Trans* Partners
fuckyeahftmsofcolor: We’ve posted some links to online groups for partners of trans* folks here before and here are a couple more: The Women’s Room - “A safe, private social network for women who love transmen”. Seems to be a counterpart to the FTM networking group, The Men’s Room (which appears to be defunct now) T-Vox’s online partner support list - some of these don’t have much recent...
The Attraction between Gay Men and Trans Men →
This is a Google Groups affiliated with the youtube channel TMates. It’s a wonderfully small community, but we really would like more insight from all areas of the soffa community. We’ve been offering a lot of support recently, so come help us!
Blog for SOFFAs
Hi, everyone! My name is Kelly, and I’m a partner of a very handsome transman. Once upon a time ago, when I first started dating Zak (one of the creators of Art of Transliness) I couldn’t find a lot of easily accessed information on how to be not only a good ally but a good girlfriend. After a little bit of time gathering information from experience and the wonderful people over at...